One of you is halfway out the door. The other is holding on. Every conversation turns into the same painful loop.
Discernment counseling is short-term, structured help - typically one to five sessions - for couples deciding whether to repair the relationship or part ways. The goal is not to fix the marriage in the room. It is to leave with clarity about your next step.
This might be for you if:
- One partner is leaning out, and the other wants to work on it
- You are stuck between fixing it and ending it
- Divorce has been said out loud, but nothing feels certain
What you will get:
- An honest look at how you got here - together and separately
- Deeper awareness of your own contribution to the problems
- A confident next step: commit to repair, pause (status quo), or move toward separation
You do not have to make this decision alone.